Wednesday, July 23, 2014

Going Bitless?

Going Bitless?
By Lindsey Partridge, President of the Natural Horsemanship Association and owner of Partridge Horse Hill, www.PartridgeHorseHill.com

I was asked recently about my opinion on using bits versus going bitless – the person was wondering if I thought using a bit was cruel and if I thought everyone should be working towards going bitless. I imagine a lot of other people are wondering the same thing – there seems to be an uprising in the number of people that are choosing to go bitless, as well as a larger number of people going bridleless – do some searches on youtube and you can find some spectacular displays of bridleless jumping, reining, mountain trail, cow cutting, dressage, and more!

At our farm, Partridge Horse Hill, you might think I was against the use of bits because if you come watch some of our lessons you would quickly notice that most of our horses are riding bitless – even a quick browse in our tack room and you’ll see that none of our school horses have a bridle with a bit on their hook.

The reason for this is not at all that I think bits are cruel. To me, any tool can be cruel or soft depending on the hands that are using it. 

There are two main reasons why we rarely use bits at Partridge Horse Hill:

1)      Rider’s need to prove they are ready for finesse: A tool is only as soft as the hands that use it. Even a bit with a chain can be super soft and subtle if the hands using it are very soft and subtle. Even a plain snaffle bit can be wickedly painful if the hands using it are harsh and out of balance.
At our farm we teach having solid basics comes before riding with finesse or collection. Before we give anyone a bit to ride with, they must first show they can ride with a soft and consistent contact through all of the skills that they would be doing with a bit. This is because to have true collection the horse needs to be willing to take hold of the bit – being accidentally bumped with the reins can cause the horse to be fearful of taking contact. Many riders today force a horse into a frame, without having true collection of the horse stretching over their topline and taking on more weight from the hind end. They do this by riding too much from their hand. It can take a very long time to gain a horse’s trust to accept collection and contact if they’ve had someone be harsh on their mouth. 

  This is one reason we keep our horses bitless – so that if student’s accidently bounce their hands, or take too much contact it won’t matter as much and won’t damage the ability to ride with a bit later when they are ready. If both the student and horse are ready for a bit and wanting to learn with one, then we do have bridles with bits that we can use for those lessons.

Having students begin bitless also means that they learn proper technique and balance and don't rely on making pain in the horse's mouth to cause the horse to stop. 

2)      Some horses just don’t like bits: not all horses are the same. Some horses have really sensitive mouths or have had such harsh riders that they don’t like bits – you can spot these horses as the ones that stick their tongue out the side of their mouth, they run through the bit, or people feel the need to put flash nosebands or other contraptions to tie their mouth shut. 
Some horses get more anxious and flighty with bits because their mouth is a sensitive place, and if they aren’t ready for a bit it will get them feeling nervous and more in the ‘fight or flight’ frame of mind. A lot of horses that tend to be flighty and too quick tend to ride better when they go bitless because being bitless can help horses feel less anxious. At our farm we have a couple horses that I just don’t feel the need to ever introduce them to a bit – one is an off the track Thoroughbred that gets really stressed when she has a bit and even with light contact she will sometimes take her tongue out to the side of her mouth, and another is an older mustang that only got started under saddle as a 16 year old – they both ride beautifully bitless and I just don’t feel the need try and make them ride with a bit. It’s not to say it can’t be done – but why fix it if it works?


There are other reasons someone might not want to use a bit – injury in a horse’s mouth, an older horse with bad teeth (might hurt to put the bit in and take the bit out), if you like to graze your horse during the ride or use treats during training (easier to eat without a bit), or even just that you may like the idea of staying out of your horse’s mouth.  

I do have some students who choose to ride with bits because they and their horse are ready for learning collection with a bit – but if they aren’t learning that, then we typically stay bitless. I find learning collection is easier with a bit – a bit in the right hands can be the ideal tool to help master collection and skills of finesse, however, it’s not needed and most of our students ride with no bit, even the ones competing in jumpers or practising upper level movements like canter half pass. 

It is important to remember not all bitless bridles are created equal. I actually had an article that came out in Horse Power magazine that talks more about that (the spring issue) – but it’s important to know that there are many types and just because one type doesn’t work for you doesn’t mean another wouldn’t (the same goes for bits).

I have come across some bitless bridles that really don’t work well for me or the horses I train (the ones that cross under the chin). I prefer a basic side pull design for a bitless bridle. Some people might think bitless bridles give you less control – this isn’t true providing you’re using the right kind of bitless bridle. I actually start all of my horses bitless, and only introduce a bit once I’m working on collection. Even horses previously trained with a bit I find can transition to a bitless bridle in one session very easily.

All in all, I think what matters more than the bit or bitless bridle someone chooses are the techniques they use. I would encourage all horse sport associations to allow bitless bridles and for all coaches to be open to using them – as it’s probably the best choice for many horse and rider combinations, especially at the schooling levels where there are green horses and riders that could really benefit from staying out of the horse’s mouth until solid skills are developed.

Monday, June 23, 2014

Being the odd man out.

Yesterday I competed at Blue Star Farm in the 0.9m jumpers for the first time in a long while.  I've been going to shows as a coach and spending most of my riding time at home developing new horses that it'd been way too long since I've zipped around a jumper course.

It was great fun to be back in the show ring and also a wake up call that both me and my jumper, Thetis, are a bit out of shape! We had 2 rails down from being a bit tired and off our take off spot.

The big thing that struck me was what an odd man out I felt like. I felt seriously under tacked as I rode with no bit, crop, spur, martingale or tight nose band. I was a partner with my horse and we moved swift and quick without head tossing or pulling on the reins.

My favourite moment happened right before we entered the ring for the speed class and someone said to another competitor "no one can make that turn its too tight from the jump" and moments later Thetis and I easily made the turn and rode to a 1st place finish.

Several people commented their amazement how effortlessly I could steer my horse and make turns no one else could.....and I had way less equipment. 

Another great moment was in the 0.6m jumpers when student Alexandra and I rode the stake class and smoked everyone else....both of us bit less without the crop and spurs. (I rode one class in the baby jumpers unjudged)

It's a fantastic feeling to show everyone that bit less can be as effective or better and that focusing on building an understanding and partnership with horses works.

Alexandra was 1st in all her classes and champion. I was 1st, 3rd and 7th and I couldn't be happier :-)  I expect that if I practice more regularly before next show that with better fitness we can get even better results.....or at least I'm looking forward to try!

I hope as more time goes by we see more people losing the extra equipment....so the horse can spend less time fighting the rider and more time focusing on the rider which we saw some of today.

I dont hate bits etc but I do think many people use them incorrectly and would benefit from getting out of their horse's mouth.

Wish us well next time!

Thursday, May 22, 2014

Fun at the Don Halladay Parelli Clinic

This past long weekend I attended the Don Halladay clinics on freestyle and finesse riding. I had a blast and learned a lot.

On Saturday I took Balius out for the morning session and he was full of beans. Leaping in the air and very nervous, Balius was quite the entertainment and I got some new techniques for focusing upset horses - the backwards circle is a nice new tactic to my bag of tricks.

After lunch was more relaxing. I took out Rose, my young QH mare and she surprised me with how well we could ride with no reins. We worked on our foundation and made great progress.

Sunday Rose was sore so I took her home and picked up Lumen - I was reminded how unexpected things can happen but we can make choices to make the best of it.

It worked amazing because Lumen got to come to his first off property experience and was amazing. He wore a bit for the first time and by the end of the lesson was accepting contact very softly and willingly. 

It was a nice feeling to discover how well the game of contact can work and how all of the ground preparation set up our finesse riding for a very easy transition.

Afterwards I had a one on one lesson with Don and Balius in the round pen....I was a passenger rider and Don sent me through all the gaits. We focused on the importance of teaching the horse they can go with the rider.  It was a massive improvement from Saturday's nervous breakdown :-)

Monday was an amazing day. Lumen and I did 2 line driving for the first time which he learnt so quickly...the Parelli games just make sense to horses. We also did some fun team friendly game and a bunch of finesse riding. Lumen was so light and lovely.

I was reminded of the importance of foundation skills and hind quarter control as some of the higher level movements were challenging and Lumen and I had to go back to the basics to remember leg position cues for moving the hips versus shoulders.

The highlight was finishing with another lesson with Don and Balius where we rode in the big sand ring. Balius was amazing and we finished with a few nice canters and he was lovely. 

Don helped me bring Balius' focus inside the ring with the help of Casino who he was riding.

I was reminded the importance of starting horses with it being their idea to go forward and being allowed to move rather than pushing and manipulating them to the point they get mad, frustrated or dont want to try. Its an art to know how much to suggest, allow or correct in the right moment.

Balius had easy fluid transitions to canter and I am so happy he is coming along so well!

Maureen and Todd Owens come to PHH for a Parelli clinic July 5-6 and I highly suggest you come!

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Tuesday, April 1, 2014

Our first foal was born today!

Today Nillina delighted us with the birth of her adorable filly. This is our first foal at Partridge Horse Hill.

We were very excited to see her. It wasn't without some commotion at the farm though - Nillina needed the vet to help her with the placenta and is now on antibiotics. We also had to do some fencing reinforcement because some of the geldings got pretty rowdy with the arrival of the foal.

We are very happy to welcome this new little addition to the farm. She'll be taking it easy over the next few days coming into a stall at night with mom until the weather is better for them to stay out.
She doesn't have a name yet, so we'll keep you posted!

Sunday, February 23, 2014

New Fellow


This week we got a new fellow, Rolo, he's an 11 year old Kentucky Mountain horse. I saw his ad and was instantly excited about him. I just love our gaited horses - Riddler & Spice have been our best lesson horses, and Shawna is half mountain horse and is amazing too. I always keep my eye out for this lovely breed.

I went to see him on the weekend, we went for a trail ride down the road and onto some snowmobile trails. He was a real trooper, very calm and very easy. There were even some snowmobiles that weren't very considerate so they went zooming past faster than they should have and he was still a calm and easy guy - I think I jumped more than him!

He's a bit smaller than I wanted, only about 14.2H but with such a fantastic temperament I know he'll be a great addition to PHH and will work well in our summer camp. I brought him home and this weekend we took him out for a trail.

What's interesting is he was hard to catch, it took me about 5-10min to catch him. It's something I always take for granted that our horses literally all walk over to you in the paddock and some will actually try to take the halter from you! Our horses love to come play and love to be 'caught'. When we get a new horse and they are hard to catch, it makes me remember that this isn't the case for everyone.

The first thing I did when I finally did catch him and bring him out was give him some dinner - we always have to remember that something has to be in it for the horse, or why would they want to be caught? The answer is usually food.... it takes a while to develop a partnership where the horse wants to come see you because they find you interesting and enjoy playing - until you have that it's easiest to include some food, rest breaks, and/or good scratches to help give your horse something they enjoy.

He was fantastic on the trail, just easy on a loose rein. We did some nice canters and he was so great. He did a mix of trotting and gaiting depending on what I was asking for. He's a pretty easy ride. Allure was acting a bit frisky so I swapped horses part way through with Danica and she got to enjoy him and found him wonderful.... despite riding in my long stirrups.

I'm sure once he realizes that we're committed to trying to be fair, kind, and giving him some rewards that he'll become easy to catch too. It will be fun to see the transition over the next couple weeks.


Balius Gets Going

Now that Balius is going to be 4 in May, I've felt the urge to actually devote some time to this gorgeous boy and give him a purpose. He's been idle in the pasture for the most part over the last couple years doing the odd play day or clinic for ground games. Before this year I'd only been on him a couple times.

So far this year things have been going well. In the last couple weeks I've really decided to give him some TLC and much needed training. Because the footing is so awful outdoors right now, we've been trailering offsite to an indoor arena.

The first trip was great. We went to SweetWater Stables with a couple other people from our barn. He was really really good. We did walk, trot, forehand & haunch turns, and back up. We attempted canter but that got a bit too playful and excited and ended up with my boot flying across the arena (don't ask me how), so I had Marcie put me on the line and she sent me in the circle for canter and we got a few strides. I was pretty impressed!

The 2nd time I took him to a clients near Peterborough, with just one other horse. It was a different arena, a coverall all with different lighting. It had a trailer set up in the middle of the ring and some tires which he found spooky. He wasn't quite as relaxed as at Sweet Water so I didn't push my luck, so I just did some riding exercises at the walk and mostly ground work.

I discovered I created a bit of a cookie monster.... I'd been giving him a cookie for doing Spanish walk and spins because I wanted to help motivate him, but it got to the point where it was hard for him to stand still because he'd keep trying to spin or do Spanish walk... needless to say we had to go back to some basics and keep the cookies in the bag!

Today was a good test for him, I took him on his first trail ride! I hand walked him most of the time because he's barely started under saddle. Then we practiced some confidence building as we practiced riders from the trail riding away from each other and then they'd come back (to help prevent herd bound issues).

I did some ground work, and decided he was ready to ride so I rode him at the walk through Pontypool for a bit. Before heading home I hopped off again to hand walk him - I wasn't sure how excited he'd get. He had one excited playful burst on the way home so I was happy with my decision to dismount prior to that.

Then he finished by calmly walking the rest of the way home. I think he really enjoyed looking around at everything. It was great exposure as we passed a few cars, and snowmobiles!

It was a good example of that there are no rules of 'once you get on you have to stay on' - instead it was about setting it up for success. I was prepared to hand walk the entire ride if I didn't think he was relaxed enough - and I know it's better to get off and stay in control, so I kept the riding short and successful (I rode about 10 min and walked about 50min). Now he's had a good experience I'm sure he'll be even better the next time.

Thursday, November 28, 2013

Sightings of Natural Horsemanship at the Royal Winter Fair, by Marcie Isherwood for the NHA

What an amazing year for the Natural Horsemanship Associations first visit to the Royal Winter Fair.  There were many exciting events and vendors to visit, as well as lots to learn, see and do.  
Every year the Royal Winter Fair seems to grow more and more towards Natural Horsemanship.  This year the Fair set up the Animal Theatre where visitors could witness the amazing talents of the Super Dogs or learn from Victoria Stilwell about training dogs by understanding their behaviors.  The Spirit of the Horse also made its appearance in the Animal Theater this year so that visitors could learn about different horse breeds, witness live riding demonstrations and learn about horse health and upkeep.

This year the major highlights that the Natural horsemanship Association was excited for were the demonstrations by Guy McLean and Sylvia Zerbini.  The performance by Guy McLean and his four horses was exhilarating.   Through his easy going humor and amazing liberty demonstration, during which he was also riding one of his horses, Guy showed just how much you can accomplish when you develop a trusting relationship with your horse(s).  Of course anyone who has ever played with a horse a liberty using Natural Horsemanship knows that it takes hours of training and dedication to build that relationship with your horse.    As he sat on his horse which stood next to two others who were all standing over another that was lying on the ground, Guy told his audience that “you need your horse to be physically, emotionally and mentally connected to you.”  Hearing Guy, who travelled to Toronto all the way from Australia reiterate the words of Pat Parelli, demonstrates what a large following Natural Horsemanship has and that several natural horsemen are saying the same thing all around the world.  Through these amazing and awe inspiring demonstrations, like the one Guy McLean put on at this year’s Royal Winter fair, more and more riders are beginning to build trusting and meaningful relationships with their horses.

After watching Guy McLean opening weekend, it was easier to understand just how much training and dedication Sylvia Zerbini has put into her work with horses.  Sylvia’s production of ‘Liberte’ was mesmerizing as she danced with about ten white Andalusian and Arabian geldings and stallions.  Using only her body movements to interact with the horses she guided them gracefully across the arena at the walk, trot and canter.  Her performance was just another amazing demonstration of how building those physical, emotional and metal connections with your horse can allow you to accomplish feats you never though were possible.

Following these two amazing performances, and adding to the Royals lineup of Natural Horsemanship events, was the performance of Connor Swail during the International Power and Speed Show Jumping Competition on November 6th.  Connor placed 3rd in this competition with a time of 32.57 after a stunning performance in which he road with a bitless bridle!  It was very refreshing to see a rider of this level breaking from tradition and recognizing that his horse may be better off without a bit.  Riding bitless demonstrated that Connor took the time to try and understand his horse’s needs and look into what was best for his horse, instead of just conforming to what is normal.   As an association we are hopeful that we will see more demonstrations like this from riders of this level in the future.


Every year the Royal Winter Fair brings a little bit of country into the city and allows the men and women who work with the animals, the agriculture and the technology behind it all to share their knowledge and skills with each other and their audiences.  It is always a pleasure to be able to visit the fair and see all that it has to offer.

By Marcie Isherwood on behalf of the Natural Horsemanship Association

Wednesday, October 9, 2013

Happy 1 year Anniversary


James and I celebrated our 1 year wedding anniversary On Monday October 7. We didn’t do anything too exciting, a normal day at work, followed by a nice dinner in Port Perry at Pickles and Olives, followed by some coaching, barn chores, and then relaxing in front of an episode of Sons of Anarchy – our new favourite tv series.

I say it feels like we’ve been together way longer – we’ve just done so much and been through so much already together. It seems so long ago that we rode away on horseback after saying our “I do’s” in our back field as our guests sat on hay bales and watched from the hill. Partridge Horse Hill has certainly grown and is still growing. We looked back over the year and reminisced over key events in the past year.

One of the most exciting was having our first litter of Corgi pups delivered by our beloved Whinnie – little Blackie and Piggy found great homes and we still get updates and pictures of these gorgeous dogs. We were very sad to lose Whinnie this past year, but have been very happy with our new girls Lona and Molly who bring us so much joy and cuddles J

The chickens seem to have multiplied rapidly and we went from 5 chickens to about 30ish, including my favourites Peaches, Cream, and Ripple. We’ve been enjoying our first experiences of hatching with the eggcubator and transitioning our chicks outside. Cloud can be hilarious and I fondly remember him growling at the group of us while we sat out front the barn for a discussion from Parelli Professional Todd Owens during a clinic weekend. Cloud wasn’t too impressed that we were loitering in his territory.

The horses have had quite a year too – new shelters sprouting like weeds to keep them happy, slow feeder nets on the round bales to try and keep our horse obesity rate down, and the exciting news that we have 4 pregnant mares – Angel, Nillina, Honey Boo, and Ellie! This is really exciting because it’s my first year having pregnant mares and it will be my first foaling experience next year.

We rounded out a great summer of camp – our first summer running a full 8 weeks of summer camp! – previously we’ve only done 2 weeks of summer camp in a year, so this was quite a change. The horses enjoyed the attention and learned a lot with the kids.

We accumulated some new horses over the summer – especially to cover the work load of all the pregnant mares. Arrowyn stepped up to the plate and we discovered she is a very talented jumper and soared over 3ft no problem with a talented camper during a game of puissance.

This was also our first year hosting horse shows – what a lot of fun! The ribbons and year end trophies look great and everyone commented what a good experience it was.

We’re excited to be wrapping up a successful season of Partridge Horse Hill and look forward to the Royal Winter Fair which is fast approaching in November.

We’ll continue to plug along with activities at the farm as we prepare for winter to come. A new year beginning and so much in the plans – we hope to be sharing with you some exciting indoor arena news soon!

Thank you to everyone who has been supporting us and Partridge Horse Hill – we’ve had a great year and really appreciate all the love and support!

We’ve had a happy one year and are ready to enjoy many more to come.

Wednesday, June 5, 2013

Natural Horsemanship Trade Show



The Natural Horsemanship Trade Show was a fun success!

Thank you for everyone who came out to make the day a fun learning experience. There are now pictures posted at:
http://www.flickr.com/photos/lfequestrian/sets/72157633949583864/

The forecast was 50% thundershowers and rain all day – so I was delighted to wake up to no rain and not one storm cloud in sight. The trade show got under way with delicious food and baked goods for sale, and several vendors set up with excellent displays including Kim Lowes Photography with amazing prints of horses and beautiful unique wood frames; Equine Original Art by Laura Boyle who was hand carving wooden horse art; Pegasus with a large booth of unique horse products for sale, Horses Help Canada with their information, and many more.
The demonstrations got under way with Nancy McHardy in the round pen using Chris Irwin methods. She focused her demonstration on getting a horse to soften and listen while at liberty. Then Cathy Foyston from Equine Assisted Learning gave a very interesting presentation using volunteers from the crowd to participate in learning games with a horse – it was really a fascinating approach to discovering how you think, feel, and act.

Next was Tom Shields, a Chris Irwin specialist, who worked with a rescue horse named Laramie. He showed us how to shape the horse’s body and practice bend so that Laramie could relax and after only a few minutes of working with him, Laramie lowered his head and started to relax. 

I then did a demonstration with my horse Thetis about ground games – what they are, some ideas of things to do, and some fun tricks. It was a chance to see many ways to test your communication and partnership.
DJ Murtagh did a fantastic demonstration with his Clyde X performing various movements, riding the teeter tauter and table that his horse had never seen before. Then he used his horse in the round pen to work a young horse which was really interesting to see how he moved the horse around. 

Over lunch there were wellness presentations including Shelley from Contented Equine who showed people how to take a horse’s vital signs, listen to a heartbeat, and look at body scoring a horse. Dr. Elana Silverman did some equine chiropractor and massage demonstrations, while Anne Riddell talked about natural barefoot trims and trimmed a few horses. Jim Ward gave us a detailed looked at saddle fitting and went through 12 different saddles on a horse to show us why or why not they fit.

The rest of the day held some more demonstrations including getting a previously wild mustang to stand for a hoof trim – and all 4 hooves were trimmed calmly! We enjoyed the day and it didn’t start to rain until after 4pm!
What was interesting for me was to see the similarities and differences between the different natural horsemen and women at the show. From the glimpse that I got to see, Chris Irwin specialists are very focused on the horse’s body language and shaping the horse rather than teaching specific cues.  DJ Murtagh encouraged calm leadership and having good control and communication to move the horse and gain leadership. Myself with a large Parelli background focused on moving through patterns and obstacles with my horse to gain trust and confidence through positive experiences and understanding a common language.

We were all different, and yet the same – everything we do is to benefit the horse – to help the horse feel calm, trusting, and understand us so we can work in harmony. It was fascinating to see the different ways you can do this.  

The next steps for the Natural Horsemanship Association will be to set up some workshops for the rest of the year, so stay tuned for future dates and get your membership if you haven’t already!

Learn more about the Natural Horsemanship Association at www.NHAssociation.ca

Thursday, May 9, 2013



 Our First Journey into Costa Rica

It was finally here, our exciting trip to Costa Rica. There was a lot of planning that went into this trip; with so many horses, chickens, dogs, puppies, and even our bunny Graveller to look after we had to line up friends and family to make sure the farm and animals would still be happy at home while we were soaking in some sun.

With the puppies and dogs off to Grandma’s house, and the horses, chickens, and bunny taken care of at the farm by different helpers and friends, we packed our bags and headed into work for our Friday shift. The work day seemed to drag on forever as we waited for the clock to strike 4:30pm so we could head out on our vacation.

4:30pm arrived and we eagerly headed for the car to begin our vacation. Our first stop was The Keg – a relaxing and delicious meal to send us on our way. We checked in for 1 night at the Airport Comfort Inn in Mississauga, stayed the night, and left our car there while we went to Costa Rica. This was our first time using the Park, Stay, Fly option.

The shuttle was prompt and quick and took us to Terminal 3 for our early morning 6:30am flight with American Airlines to Miami. I haven’t flown from Toronto is a couple years – we’ve been sticking to Buffalo because of the cheaper air fare and parking, but the price for flying from Toronto didn’t add much so we opted for Pearson this go round. I was a bit surprised how they’ve changed things – you don’t check your bags in at the airline desk, we had to walk them through a check point before being able to load them onto the belt to take them away.

Our flight was comfortable and arrived on time – which was really important since we only had an hour to make our way to our next flight from Miami to Liberia. We hustled our way literally from one end of the airport to other – and wow is Miami a big airport! We could have taken the sky train, but we wanted the exercise after sitting our gluteus maximus already for too many hours.

We arrived in Liberia, Costa Rica safe and sound with sunshine gleaming through the windows. We shuffled out to the luggage turnstile and waited for our bags. The airport is quite small with only 2 luggage turnstiles – the building open partially at the sides allowing the outside heat to warm the building, with gigantic fans to help swirl the air and cool us down.

The turnstile stopped and the last of the luggage was picked up, and a small group of tourists including us were left standing looking for our bags. We were informed that our bags were still in Miami – apparently our flight transfer was a little too quick! One of the other couples whose bags were left in Miami  were smart – they had packed a spare change of clothes and bathing suit in their carry ons in case this happened – lucky.
I was thankfully in sandals, but not thankfully in jeans and a black polo with no change of clothes in my carry on – what was I thinking? We were told our luggage would arrive on the next flight from Miami to Liberia which would be the next day at the same time. Then we got some good news – American Airlines would reimburse us for ‘reasonable expenses’ to buy us replacement clothes for the day. Thank goodness!

We then went through the airport exit and found our taxi cab driver with a sign with our names on it very easily as promised by the resort. We loaded into the taxi with some other people and began our journey in Costa Rica.

The drive to the resort was interesting – a lot of the roads are fairly narrow with little to no shoulder, and either no lines or very faintly painted lines. Cars seem to drive in the middle of the road and then move over when they see another car. Some of the bridges and pathways seem impossible for a vehicle to pass, but somehow the taxi van squeezed through.

We drove through an area of flat lands –sugar cane, rice fields and hay crops, some farms, and Costa Rican homes. Then we came into the hills – beautiful scenery with rolling cliffs and hills, volcanoes in the distance and many different species of birds and wildlife. Amazing.

As we approached the coast we arrived at our resort, Villas Sol, after what was about a 30 minute drive. What a beautiful view. I could not have imagined the beauty of what unfolded in front of us. The beautiful blue ocean in front of us with two picturesque rock islands  in off centre view; a splattering of quaint villas and homes lining the hills in little pockets around the coastal line; trees filled with different birds – on one we could see a group of green & yellow parrots singing to each other, another with an interesting version of the blue jay but with an adorable cow licked feather atop their heads; fresh coconuts lining the base of palm trees leading up the hill; and the sound of gentle waves crashing into the sand only a short distance away.

We were driven up the incredibly steep hill up to the main reception where we checked in – we were early (about 12:30pm) and check in wasn’t until 3pm so we weren’t able to get room keys yet. James used their phone to talk with Visa and found out that they would also reimburse us for clothes/essentials purchased up to $500 each but only purchased after 6 hrs.

We asked about shopping and decided to walk to the local shops – but first we had lunch at the a la carte restaurant, bought swim suits, sunscreen, and a dress for myself from the resort shop – we desperately needed out of our ‘airplane clothes.’

The walk to the local shops took about 10 minutes. There was one clothing/souvenir shop and one supermarket type shop with food and other essentials. We picked up some essentials like razors, deodorant, and face sunscreen from the supermarket, and then shopped in the clothing store.

We got some much needed things like towels, hats, sunglasses, t-shirts, shorts, and for me a dress. We had to wait until 5:30pm before we could pay because wanted to make sure it was 6 hrs after our flight landed so Visa would reimburse if for whatever reason American Airlines wouldn’t. Then we headed back to the resort.

We arrived back at the resort, were able to check into our room. We also found out our planned Sunday tour was cancelled because there weren’t enough people signed up (we’re traveling in low season). Instead we rebooked the tour for Tuesday and then walked down to the beach and booked a scuba diving tour for Sunday instead. We enjoyed our dinner. The restaurant was lovely with a lot of choices and a stunning view of the coast. Trees surround the resort making it a nice place to sit and watch the different birds fly about. Looking over the edge of the restaurant rail we saw some wild kittens begging for scraps – they became our friends for the rest of trip as we constantly would toss them scraps throughout our meals.

Our room was lovely with a private balcony with the same stunning view of the coast. Our bed was comfortable and the bathroom very stylish with a stone wall shower and marble counter top. The room was equipped with coffee, flat screen tv, and a little fridge and safe.

We took an evening dip in the hotel side pool, and then enjoyed our first night and woke early in the morning – our Scuba diving tour would pick us up at 8am.

We ate breakfast and then went down to the place where we were told to wait. 8:20am came around and still no one was there to pick us up, and nobody was there at the booth where booked & paid cash for the scuba diving. James decided to be resourceful and go behind the counter and find the phone that that been unplugged and put into a drawer – he plug it in and then a local from the beach came over and helped us dial Rich Coast Diving.

The local talked with the tour company for us and found out they had gone to the wrong area of the resort to pick us up, but would pay for a taxi to bring us there since we had missed our drive. We trucked our way back up the really steep hill in the hotel shuttle and waited for the taxi which came and took us to Cocoa Beach to Rich Coast Diving, a short 10 min drive away.

Luckily James had our PADI diving certification cards in with our passports – but all of our money and scuba equipment in the luggage. It wasn’t a big deal though – we were able to rent gear from the dive shop… although I was looking forward to using my 3mm wetsuit I bought for such occasions.
It was a really nice experience – the dive shop packed up and loaded up all of our gear onto the boat for us. 

We just enjoyed the walk to the beach, the small boat ride out to the larger boat, and then we sat down while they brought everything over to us all ready to put on!

Our first dive was amazing, we went down about 80 ft (we’re both advanced diving certified) and we saw white tipped sharks, sea urchins, sea horses ( sea ponies?) and many other species of fish and ocean life. What I found truly spectacular was when we came across a very large school of fish which I swam right into. I was literally surrounded by thousands of fish. Everywhere I looked was fish – grey and silver with yellow tails and flecks of brown. I floated in place with them in awe of their beauty and grace. It was a surreal experience.

Our second dive started with a bit of a scare, as we descended to about 40 ft for a shallower dive, we went through a cloud of jelly fish. I was stung right on my lips as we went down. It was painful – a sharp sting. What was scarier was that I didn’t know what to expect. I scurried back to the surface. The dive master told me the stinging would pass and these aren’t ‘serious’ jellyfish. He also told me that they stay near the surface so once we are below them we’d be okay to enjoy the ocean floor.

I went back down and toured the ocean floor. This time there some more white tipped sharks, a sea horse, and many more types of fish and ocean life. I didn’t enjoy this dive as much – more jellyfish snuck up on me, and when they did I would hide behind whatever person was in front of me.

When it came time to come back up to the surface, I started up the mooring line but then there were thousands of jelly fish and I quickly went back down the ocean floor where I was safe from the jelly fish. I started to have a bit of a panic attack and was full on crying. Eventually the dive master came back down and realized what was scaring me – he was protected with gloves and hood so he brought me to the surface protecting me. I was stung another time on my ankle, and another 2 times on my face.

When we safely were back on the boat I put vinegar on my sting sites to soothe them. Poor James was stung many times, and in the days to come his face blistered and you could clearly see where the jelly fish tentacles lashed his face. All and all it was an amazing experience and I would do it again…. I’d just hope we could drive the boat away from the jelly fish! We were told that from August – October you can see whales and dolphins including the famous whale sharks and blue whales, so I think we’ll be planning our next trip to Costa Rica during that time.

We went back to the resort for the rest of the day and played on the beach, relaxed in the arm chairs, enjoyed the pools and the food. It was a relaxing day at the resort.

Our Monday tour picked us up at 7:30am to take us on a full day tour to the Arenal Volcano and Rainforest walking tour by Swiss Travel. We were picked up by the tour company bus at our resort. They brought us to a central location where we could use the washrooms and then get onto our bus for the tour we were doing. There were several tours going out.

It was easy to find our bus because the driver was holding the sign that said ‘Arenal Volcano & Rainforest tour’. We boarded the small bus and with about 6 other couples we took off on our tour. The tour guide was very knowledgeable and told us a lot about Costa Rica.

However, within a short distance of our drive, 2 woman on the bus realized they were on the wrong tour. Instead of being polite and asking if they could get switched on the bus they completely lost it and threatened the tour guide ‘you get us on the right bus or we’ll go Jersey on your ass’ – which was completely uncalled for because the tour guide, Denis, was really a pleasant fellow. Sure enough the bus pulled over a short distance ahead and the 2 woman got off (thankfully) and 2 tourists from the other bus got on ours… they had accidentally got on the wrong bus too.

The tour started with an informative bus ride to Arenal lake, where we stopped for lunch. We had a delicious meal – my favorite part was the citrus cream cheese dessert yum J Then we took an amazing boat ride towards Arenal Volcano. The views were spectacular – a calm sprawling lake with a blue back drop of mountains and magnificent volcano appearing in the distance with birds of different species appearing amongst the beauty.

The boat ride came to an end and we boarded our bus after picking up a fresh cut coconut to drink for $1. Now I hate the coconut water from drink boxes, I think it tastes kind of gross, but this fresh coconut was very refreshing and satisfying.

Next we finished our bus ride to private property for our rainforest walk. To start with there was an amazing view of the volcano where we took some pictures. Then we started on our walk. We walked mostly on a downhill path learning about the various plants and trees.

There was a Latex tree where our guide cut into the tree and we put latex on our fingers to let it dry and see the yellow rubbery substance – very neat. We saw some different species of plants, birds, insects, and tress – including a tree that was recently filmed as part of the upcoming moving ‘After Earth’. What was really unique about the walk was that a turkey joined us for the whole walk – it was like a dog happily following us along. James fed him Gatorade as a treat – the turkey stuck with us but wouldn’t let us pet him.

Next we headed to the hot springs. This place surprised me – I was expecting it to me more rustic. Instead it was a series of tastefully designed waterfalls and pools. The hottest water started at the top pool, and as the water fell to each pool below, the water became cooler. Even the coolest spring was very warm. It was beautiful place nestled beside the volcano with a picturesque view.

Lastly we enjoyed a dinner at one of the local resorts. The table was set in the large dining room with gigantic windows that gave way to the towering volcano above. The meal was delicious too – I had the sea bass J
On the way home, in the dark, the bus driver spotted a two toed sloth hanging from the power lines so we pulled over and had a peek. Throughout the drive they pulled over whenever there was something interesting to see – we pulled over 4 times throughout the tour; once for monkeys, once for a sloth and twice for unique birds. We didn’t get back until about 9 pm.

The next day we had another tour, this time the Mega Combo. We started our day the same way, and ended up with the same bus driver for our tour, Carlos, but had Andrais for our tour guide. We boarded our bus, this time staying in Guanacaste region.

First up was the canopy tour – zip lining from tree to tree, souring through the tropical forest with spectacular mountain and volcano views. The zip-lining was fun, but also very exciting was all of the nature we saw from above – monkeys in the tree tops and many different species of birds and other wildlife. I enjoyed the tree tops of the zip lining for watching wild life more than the nature walk the previous day.

Next was the water slide through the forest – a very long walk to the top of the hill. Girls had to wear a leather diaper or a pair of shorts – luckily I had mine! Then cushioned by a rubber tube we descended down over 1000ft of water slide, it was super fun – and because it was low season and not too many people there, James and I got to do it twice!

We then enjoyed a nice buffet style lunch – I really enjoyed the cream of squash dish which we also had at the resort, among other options. Their strawberry banana juice was super delicious too.
After refueling our bodies we headed out to the horses for a ride. This was unlike any other horseback riding experience I have ever done. At Partridge Horse Hill we make sure people have had lessons and can complete a few key safety tasks before we take them trail riding. When I worked at Pleasure Valley we gave people a little mini lesson before hitting the trails – and there were rules like no passing, keep in the order we give you, etc. I’ve even trail ridden in Arizona and England and those places were similar.

In Costa Rica the riding experience was very different – the guides didn’t even speak any English. They pulled out the horses and just toss you on a horse and let go. I felt privileged that I knew what I was doing. Many other tourists were timid and just sitting on the horse awkwardly holding their reins wondering what to do. I gave some of them a few pointers.

After our whole group was on their horses, about 20 of us, our tour guide got on his horse and came to the front of the group and gave a few quick little instructions of the reins – but basically said some horses are followers and some are leaders, so your horse may go to the front or back. We then headed out to the hills – our tour guide at the front making sure nobody passed him, and one staff member riding at the back with a stick making bird noises to keep the horses moving forward.


We rode in a giant herd down some wide paths, everybody all together as a group. One grey horse tried to kick mine and nearly clipped my leg. I held my horse back with James on his for the rest of the ride to be away from the hustle and bustle and the dust. It was a bit of a gong show.
The ride had some spectacular views, and by and large the horses behaved themselves as the tourists clung to their saddles. We came to some more narrow paths and descended down some pretty steep drops, through some water and streams, and over some rocky terrain that typically I wouldn’t think suitable for beginners.

We all arrived in one piece at the hot springs where we just hopped off our horses, and let them go. We didn’t even tie the reins up – just left the reins loose over the horse’s head and the horses all walked back on a different path to the stable where food and water would be waiting for them.
The horses all rode bitless, and were skinny and fit – but not super scary skinny like some people talk about when they go riding in the tropics – these were slim and fit horses, but they didn’t look really under nourished… and we were visiting in dry season when a lot of the grasses were dead.

Our day finished in the hot springs – these were much larger springs. The pools much larger, set more in a natural setting, and we rubbed ourselves with volcanic mud before showering and enjoying the springs. It was a really relaxing experience and a fantastic way to end the tour.

We arrived back at the resort around 5pm, so we still had time to swim and enjoy dinner back at the resort. For this dinner we enjoyed the restaurant with the served dinner – something you could do for free once during the vacation. It was a really romantic dinner, overlooking the pools, with delicious food – and we got to walk away afterward without paying a penny.

Our entire trip to Costa Rica was amazing. It could have been a disaster if we let any of the hiccups get to us – having delayed luggage, bed bugs, stinging jelly fish, and cancelled tours – but instead we were resilient, flexible, and ended up having one of the best vacations of our lives…. And we can’t wait to get back to Costa Rica to continue exploring all of the amazing things it has to offer. We’re thinking we’ll go in the rainy season to see the lush forests compared to that of dry season which we visited, as well as see the whales, dolphins, and waterfalls. 

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