Thursday, May 9, 2013



 Our First Journey into Costa Rica

It was finally here, our exciting trip to Costa Rica. There was a lot of planning that went into this trip; with so many horses, chickens, dogs, puppies, and even our bunny Graveller to look after we had to line up friends and family to make sure the farm and animals would still be happy at home while we were soaking in some sun.

With the puppies and dogs off to Grandma’s house, and the horses, chickens, and bunny taken care of at the farm by different helpers and friends, we packed our bags and headed into work for our Friday shift. The work day seemed to drag on forever as we waited for the clock to strike 4:30pm so we could head out on our vacation.

4:30pm arrived and we eagerly headed for the car to begin our vacation. Our first stop was The Keg – a relaxing and delicious meal to send us on our way. We checked in for 1 night at the Airport Comfort Inn in Mississauga, stayed the night, and left our car there while we went to Costa Rica. This was our first time using the Park, Stay, Fly option.

The shuttle was prompt and quick and took us to Terminal 3 for our early morning 6:30am flight with American Airlines to Miami. I haven’t flown from Toronto is a couple years – we’ve been sticking to Buffalo because of the cheaper air fare and parking, but the price for flying from Toronto didn’t add much so we opted for Pearson this go round. I was a bit surprised how they’ve changed things – you don’t check your bags in at the airline desk, we had to walk them through a check point before being able to load them onto the belt to take them away.

Our flight was comfortable and arrived on time – which was really important since we only had an hour to make our way to our next flight from Miami to Liberia. We hustled our way literally from one end of the airport to other – and wow is Miami a big airport! We could have taken the sky train, but we wanted the exercise after sitting our gluteus maximus already for too many hours.

We arrived in Liberia, Costa Rica safe and sound with sunshine gleaming through the windows. We shuffled out to the luggage turnstile and waited for our bags. The airport is quite small with only 2 luggage turnstiles – the building open partially at the sides allowing the outside heat to warm the building, with gigantic fans to help swirl the air and cool us down.

The turnstile stopped and the last of the luggage was picked up, and a small group of tourists including us were left standing looking for our bags. We were informed that our bags were still in Miami – apparently our flight transfer was a little too quick! One of the other couples whose bags were left in Miami  were smart – they had packed a spare change of clothes and bathing suit in their carry ons in case this happened – lucky.
I was thankfully in sandals, but not thankfully in jeans and a black polo with no change of clothes in my carry on – what was I thinking? We were told our luggage would arrive on the next flight from Miami to Liberia which would be the next day at the same time. Then we got some good news – American Airlines would reimburse us for ‘reasonable expenses’ to buy us replacement clothes for the day. Thank goodness!

We then went through the airport exit and found our taxi cab driver with a sign with our names on it very easily as promised by the resort. We loaded into the taxi with some other people and began our journey in Costa Rica.

The drive to the resort was interesting – a lot of the roads are fairly narrow with little to no shoulder, and either no lines or very faintly painted lines. Cars seem to drive in the middle of the road and then move over when they see another car. Some of the bridges and pathways seem impossible for a vehicle to pass, but somehow the taxi van squeezed through.

We drove through an area of flat lands –sugar cane, rice fields and hay crops, some farms, and Costa Rican homes. Then we came into the hills – beautiful scenery with rolling cliffs and hills, volcanoes in the distance and many different species of birds and wildlife. Amazing.

As we approached the coast we arrived at our resort, Villas Sol, after what was about a 30 minute drive. What a beautiful view. I could not have imagined the beauty of what unfolded in front of us. The beautiful blue ocean in front of us with two picturesque rock islands  in off centre view; a splattering of quaint villas and homes lining the hills in little pockets around the coastal line; trees filled with different birds – on one we could see a group of green & yellow parrots singing to each other, another with an interesting version of the blue jay but with an adorable cow licked feather atop their heads; fresh coconuts lining the base of palm trees leading up the hill; and the sound of gentle waves crashing into the sand only a short distance away.

We were driven up the incredibly steep hill up to the main reception where we checked in – we were early (about 12:30pm) and check in wasn’t until 3pm so we weren’t able to get room keys yet. James used their phone to talk with Visa and found out that they would also reimburse us for clothes/essentials purchased up to $500 each but only purchased after 6 hrs.

We asked about shopping and decided to walk to the local shops – but first we had lunch at the a la carte restaurant, bought swim suits, sunscreen, and a dress for myself from the resort shop – we desperately needed out of our ‘airplane clothes.’

The walk to the local shops took about 10 minutes. There was one clothing/souvenir shop and one supermarket type shop with food and other essentials. We picked up some essentials like razors, deodorant, and face sunscreen from the supermarket, and then shopped in the clothing store.

We got some much needed things like towels, hats, sunglasses, t-shirts, shorts, and for me a dress. We had to wait until 5:30pm before we could pay because wanted to make sure it was 6 hrs after our flight landed so Visa would reimburse if for whatever reason American Airlines wouldn’t. Then we headed back to the resort.

We arrived back at the resort, were able to check into our room. We also found out our planned Sunday tour was cancelled because there weren’t enough people signed up (we’re traveling in low season). Instead we rebooked the tour for Tuesday and then walked down to the beach and booked a scuba diving tour for Sunday instead. We enjoyed our dinner. The restaurant was lovely with a lot of choices and a stunning view of the coast. Trees surround the resort making it a nice place to sit and watch the different birds fly about. Looking over the edge of the restaurant rail we saw some wild kittens begging for scraps – they became our friends for the rest of trip as we constantly would toss them scraps throughout our meals.

Our room was lovely with a private balcony with the same stunning view of the coast. Our bed was comfortable and the bathroom very stylish with a stone wall shower and marble counter top. The room was equipped with coffee, flat screen tv, and a little fridge and safe.

We took an evening dip in the hotel side pool, and then enjoyed our first night and woke early in the morning – our Scuba diving tour would pick us up at 8am.

We ate breakfast and then went down to the place where we were told to wait. 8:20am came around and still no one was there to pick us up, and nobody was there at the booth where booked & paid cash for the scuba diving. James decided to be resourceful and go behind the counter and find the phone that that been unplugged and put into a drawer – he plug it in and then a local from the beach came over and helped us dial Rich Coast Diving.

The local talked with the tour company for us and found out they had gone to the wrong area of the resort to pick us up, but would pay for a taxi to bring us there since we had missed our drive. We trucked our way back up the really steep hill in the hotel shuttle and waited for the taxi which came and took us to Cocoa Beach to Rich Coast Diving, a short 10 min drive away.

Luckily James had our PADI diving certification cards in with our passports – but all of our money and scuba equipment in the luggage. It wasn’t a big deal though – we were able to rent gear from the dive shop… although I was looking forward to using my 3mm wetsuit I bought for such occasions.
It was a really nice experience – the dive shop packed up and loaded up all of our gear onto the boat for us. 

We just enjoyed the walk to the beach, the small boat ride out to the larger boat, and then we sat down while they brought everything over to us all ready to put on!

Our first dive was amazing, we went down about 80 ft (we’re both advanced diving certified) and we saw white tipped sharks, sea urchins, sea horses ( sea ponies?) and many other species of fish and ocean life. What I found truly spectacular was when we came across a very large school of fish which I swam right into. I was literally surrounded by thousands of fish. Everywhere I looked was fish – grey and silver with yellow tails and flecks of brown. I floated in place with them in awe of their beauty and grace. It was a surreal experience.

Our second dive started with a bit of a scare, as we descended to about 40 ft for a shallower dive, we went through a cloud of jelly fish. I was stung right on my lips as we went down. It was painful – a sharp sting. What was scarier was that I didn’t know what to expect. I scurried back to the surface. The dive master told me the stinging would pass and these aren’t ‘serious’ jellyfish. He also told me that they stay near the surface so once we are below them we’d be okay to enjoy the ocean floor.

I went back down and toured the ocean floor. This time there some more white tipped sharks, a sea horse, and many more types of fish and ocean life. I didn’t enjoy this dive as much – more jellyfish snuck up on me, and when they did I would hide behind whatever person was in front of me.

When it came time to come back up to the surface, I started up the mooring line but then there were thousands of jelly fish and I quickly went back down the ocean floor where I was safe from the jelly fish. I started to have a bit of a panic attack and was full on crying. Eventually the dive master came back down and realized what was scaring me – he was protected with gloves and hood so he brought me to the surface protecting me. I was stung another time on my ankle, and another 2 times on my face.

When we safely were back on the boat I put vinegar on my sting sites to soothe them. Poor James was stung many times, and in the days to come his face blistered and you could clearly see where the jelly fish tentacles lashed his face. All and all it was an amazing experience and I would do it again…. I’d just hope we could drive the boat away from the jelly fish! We were told that from August – October you can see whales and dolphins including the famous whale sharks and blue whales, so I think we’ll be planning our next trip to Costa Rica during that time.

We went back to the resort for the rest of the day and played on the beach, relaxed in the arm chairs, enjoyed the pools and the food. It was a relaxing day at the resort.

Our Monday tour picked us up at 7:30am to take us on a full day tour to the Arenal Volcano and Rainforest walking tour by Swiss Travel. We were picked up by the tour company bus at our resort. They brought us to a central location where we could use the washrooms and then get onto our bus for the tour we were doing. There were several tours going out.

It was easy to find our bus because the driver was holding the sign that said ‘Arenal Volcano & Rainforest tour’. We boarded the small bus and with about 6 other couples we took off on our tour. The tour guide was very knowledgeable and told us a lot about Costa Rica.

However, within a short distance of our drive, 2 woman on the bus realized they were on the wrong tour. Instead of being polite and asking if they could get switched on the bus they completely lost it and threatened the tour guide ‘you get us on the right bus or we’ll go Jersey on your ass’ – which was completely uncalled for because the tour guide, Denis, was really a pleasant fellow. Sure enough the bus pulled over a short distance ahead and the 2 woman got off (thankfully) and 2 tourists from the other bus got on ours… they had accidentally got on the wrong bus too.

The tour started with an informative bus ride to Arenal lake, where we stopped for lunch. We had a delicious meal – my favorite part was the citrus cream cheese dessert yum J Then we took an amazing boat ride towards Arenal Volcano. The views were spectacular – a calm sprawling lake with a blue back drop of mountains and magnificent volcano appearing in the distance with birds of different species appearing amongst the beauty.

The boat ride came to an end and we boarded our bus after picking up a fresh cut coconut to drink for $1. Now I hate the coconut water from drink boxes, I think it tastes kind of gross, but this fresh coconut was very refreshing and satisfying.

Next we finished our bus ride to private property for our rainforest walk. To start with there was an amazing view of the volcano where we took some pictures. Then we started on our walk. We walked mostly on a downhill path learning about the various plants and trees.

There was a Latex tree where our guide cut into the tree and we put latex on our fingers to let it dry and see the yellow rubbery substance – very neat. We saw some different species of plants, birds, insects, and tress – including a tree that was recently filmed as part of the upcoming moving ‘After Earth’. What was really unique about the walk was that a turkey joined us for the whole walk – it was like a dog happily following us along. James fed him Gatorade as a treat – the turkey stuck with us but wouldn’t let us pet him.

Next we headed to the hot springs. This place surprised me – I was expecting it to me more rustic. Instead it was a series of tastefully designed waterfalls and pools. The hottest water started at the top pool, and as the water fell to each pool below, the water became cooler. Even the coolest spring was very warm. It was beautiful place nestled beside the volcano with a picturesque view.

Lastly we enjoyed a dinner at one of the local resorts. The table was set in the large dining room with gigantic windows that gave way to the towering volcano above. The meal was delicious too – I had the sea bass J
On the way home, in the dark, the bus driver spotted a two toed sloth hanging from the power lines so we pulled over and had a peek. Throughout the drive they pulled over whenever there was something interesting to see – we pulled over 4 times throughout the tour; once for monkeys, once for a sloth and twice for unique birds. We didn’t get back until about 9 pm.

The next day we had another tour, this time the Mega Combo. We started our day the same way, and ended up with the same bus driver for our tour, Carlos, but had Andrais for our tour guide. We boarded our bus, this time staying in Guanacaste region.

First up was the canopy tour – zip lining from tree to tree, souring through the tropical forest with spectacular mountain and volcano views. The zip-lining was fun, but also very exciting was all of the nature we saw from above – monkeys in the tree tops and many different species of birds and other wildlife. I enjoyed the tree tops of the zip lining for watching wild life more than the nature walk the previous day.

Next was the water slide through the forest – a very long walk to the top of the hill. Girls had to wear a leather diaper or a pair of shorts – luckily I had mine! Then cushioned by a rubber tube we descended down over 1000ft of water slide, it was super fun – and because it was low season and not too many people there, James and I got to do it twice!

We then enjoyed a nice buffet style lunch – I really enjoyed the cream of squash dish which we also had at the resort, among other options. Their strawberry banana juice was super delicious too.
After refueling our bodies we headed out to the horses for a ride. This was unlike any other horseback riding experience I have ever done. At Partridge Horse Hill we make sure people have had lessons and can complete a few key safety tasks before we take them trail riding. When I worked at Pleasure Valley we gave people a little mini lesson before hitting the trails – and there were rules like no passing, keep in the order we give you, etc. I’ve even trail ridden in Arizona and England and those places were similar.

In Costa Rica the riding experience was very different – the guides didn’t even speak any English. They pulled out the horses and just toss you on a horse and let go. I felt privileged that I knew what I was doing. Many other tourists were timid and just sitting on the horse awkwardly holding their reins wondering what to do. I gave some of them a few pointers.

After our whole group was on their horses, about 20 of us, our tour guide got on his horse and came to the front of the group and gave a few quick little instructions of the reins – but basically said some horses are followers and some are leaders, so your horse may go to the front or back. We then headed out to the hills – our tour guide at the front making sure nobody passed him, and one staff member riding at the back with a stick making bird noises to keep the horses moving forward.


We rode in a giant herd down some wide paths, everybody all together as a group. One grey horse tried to kick mine and nearly clipped my leg. I held my horse back with James on his for the rest of the ride to be away from the hustle and bustle and the dust. It was a bit of a gong show.
The ride had some spectacular views, and by and large the horses behaved themselves as the tourists clung to their saddles. We came to some more narrow paths and descended down some pretty steep drops, through some water and streams, and over some rocky terrain that typically I wouldn’t think suitable for beginners.

We all arrived in one piece at the hot springs where we just hopped off our horses, and let them go. We didn’t even tie the reins up – just left the reins loose over the horse’s head and the horses all walked back on a different path to the stable where food and water would be waiting for them.
The horses all rode bitless, and were skinny and fit – but not super scary skinny like some people talk about when they go riding in the tropics – these were slim and fit horses, but they didn’t look really under nourished… and we were visiting in dry season when a lot of the grasses were dead.

Our day finished in the hot springs – these were much larger springs. The pools much larger, set more in a natural setting, and we rubbed ourselves with volcanic mud before showering and enjoying the springs. It was a really relaxing experience and a fantastic way to end the tour.

We arrived back at the resort around 5pm, so we still had time to swim and enjoy dinner back at the resort. For this dinner we enjoyed the restaurant with the served dinner – something you could do for free once during the vacation. It was a really romantic dinner, overlooking the pools, with delicious food – and we got to walk away afterward without paying a penny.

Our entire trip to Costa Rica was amazing. It could have been a disaster if we let any of the hiccups get to us – having delayed luggage, bed bugs, stinging jelly fish, and cancelled tours – but instead we were resilient, flexible, and ended up having one of the best vacations of our lives…. And we can’t wait to get back to Costa Rica to continue exploring all of the amazing things it has to offer. We’re thinking we’ll go in the rainy season to see the lush forests compared to that of dry season which we visited, as well as see the whales, dolphins, and waterfalls. 

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Tuesday, April 16, 2013

Laramie - Spring Training Updates

Just a quick update about Laramie, a Tennessee Walker gelding in for training to be a quiet trail/pleasure horse.

This horse has really amazed me with how polite and what a quick learner he is. He is so very patient and will stand very quietly for grooming, tacking up, or just while I am chatting to someone.

Where Laramie needs the most work is with mounting. He has a lot of anxiety over mounting.

Today I took him out, tacked up, and started with ground games. He is a beginner with most of the games but picks them up quickly and is learning fast. His wiggle to back up is a little sluggish, but he is figuring it all out. For the most part he is very sensitive to cues and moves very easily.

For mounting he did a lot of dancing around, but I am very calm and consistent in my approach. The trick is to reward the horse when they stand still by retreating - not punishing them for standing still by trying to sneak on quickly as soon as the horse stands still.

Pretty soon Laramie figured out that the only way to get me to stop tapping the saddle/get my foot out of the stirrup/etc was to stand still  - and then I reward him by relaxing and retreating (take my foot out of the stirrup, stop hopping, etc).

It took about 15 -20 min or so, but then I was able to pull myself up from both sides, a couple times without him taking a step. I sat on Laramie for a bit, relaxed, and then dismounted to end the session.

I want Laramie thinking that mounting is simple, easy, and nothing to be nervous about - there is no point doing any riding just yet.... better to build the relationship and get Laramie's trust first - I need to prove to Laramie that I am different than the rest of the trainers he has had before.... the easiest way to prove that to him is to show him I am more interested in calm communication then just going for a ride.

Who's fault is it that Ellie ended up at the slaughter house?

Someone raised an interesting point with me  - it had to do with Ellie and how she ended up at the slaughter house. Who is to blame? Is it wrong to sell horses at auctions? Was it wrong of me to sell Ellie in the first place?

I thought it interesting enough to share my two cents....

I think there are many reasons horses go to slaughter ......

  • There are too many horses: racing industries don't help because the market is flooded with Tb's, Standardbreds, and Quarter Horses because of so much breeding
  • Horses cost money: they are really expensive to keep and care for properly... and people's financial situations change so it can be hard to keep a horse if things don't go as planned
  • Horses are meat: I hate the idea of eating a horse, but the reality is that they are a meat animal and many countries do eat horse meat regularly
  • Auctions are a quick and easy way to sell a horse: they just are... and it's legal for kill buyers to be able to purchase horses at auction
  • It's legal to breed as many horses as you want, and it's legal to slaughter horses. 
To give you my point of view - why I sold Ellie and why I continue to sell some horses - there are a few reasons. 
1) I really enjoy re-training horses, and helping to take a horse that was unwanted, or unused, train them and make them safe and useful. I enjoy finding them new owners that can then give that horse a new look on life, and at the same time spread awareness about natural horsemanship in how the horse was trained. 
2) Horses aren't cheap - I would happily keep all of my horses if I could, but the reality is I'm not rich. I can afford to keep things running and care for my horses, but to be able to re-train and save new horses I need to sell some horses that I have retrained both to recuperate some costs, and to meet the farm tax quota. 
3) Horses are happiest with a purpose and person - I only have so many hours in a day, and I can't give all of them enough attention on my own. Horses thrive when they have a good human partner to keep them fit and engaged. I like getting horses to a point where they are safe and trained enough for a new human partner to be able to enjoy them. 
4) I know I can't save all the horses, but I know I can save a few.... I feel I give them the best chance at a happy life by making sure any horses that I own, or am going to sell get solid training basics, and become safe to handle so that someone else can enjoy them...... I know that if people enjoy a horse because they feel safe with them, that horse is much more likely to have a forever home. 

In Ellie's case, she was an off the track TB mare and a chestnut which are known for being bold and unruly - much like Thetis. I bought her and loved her to bits, got her fully trained, but in the end had to sell one of my horses if I was going to continue taking on new ones to retrain.... if not for me then Ellie could have very well ended up at auction and slaughter before she was given a chance. 

I've changed a few of my practices in selling horses to help make sure horses I sell don't go bouncing around from home to home, or end up at an auction - 
  • for starters I charge less money....  I mostly cater to the pleasure rider looking for an easy horse to trail ride, do low level shows, etc - horses are more likely to have a long term home with these types of buyers because its less likely these new owners will out grow the skill/usefulness of the horse (I'm guilty here too and sold my very first horse because he couldn't handle jump courses over 3'3" and I wanted to go higher). 
  • I sell to clients, or people willing to take some lessons and/or learn about natural horsemanship.... if you show up to ride one of my horses and insist on using a bit, wearing spurs, using a crop, and just hopping on with no ground work... you're not getting on
  • I include a contract with a first right of refusal for me to have first chance to buy a horse back if they decide to sell, and that they will never take the horse to auction or send for slaughter
  • I don't sell a lot of horses each year, I focus my efforts on a couple horses that I think would be able to find good homes and/or do better with one on one attention rather than being used in our program with summer camps, etc. 
  • I spread the word that I am willing take horses back that don't work out, or if for some reason I can't... I will help in whatever way I can to rehome/sell the horse
I don't know that it's important to place blame in Ellie's case - was it the TB breeder's fault for breeding too many TB's? the government for allowing slaughter houses for horses? The drought that caused really high hay prices and therefore a lot of people to get rid of their horses?  Her past owner's fault for allowing her to slip into those hands? or mine for not keeping her? I think you could make a good argument for any one. 

What I think is more important is to try and save the horses we can, do our best to ensure good homes if/when we need to sell a horse, and advocate for responsible Canadian horse breeding/care/slaughter laws. 

What do you think?

Ellie Update - It makes me so mad....



Ellie is my 2003 off the track TB that I owned a few years ago before selling her. She's gone around a few owner's hands before ending up on the way to slaughter after auction. Thankfully she was posted on Need You Now Equine, and spotted by a former student of mine. Ellie has been recuperating at our farm and getting ready to be back into a normal life.

Ellie has been doing really well - she's gained weight and moving sound and happily. She gets along with her old friends Balius and Thetis in the paddock, as well as the other horses who have accepted her too.

A couple weeks ago Dr. Helen Tandy came to visit Ellie. She is an equine chiropractor who treated Ellie when I owned her and boarded at Bellewood Equestrian Centre few years ago. Dr. Tandy brought her old notes from when she saw Ellie a few years ago.

She gave Ellie an adjustment and full assessment and was surprised that Ellie was actually in great spinal and alignment health - no concerns. She is a bit stiff in her right SI joint (hip), but that is similar to when I owned her many years ago and isn't cause for concern. She said it looked like Ellie was healthy and would be okay to start work and riding.

With the good news, I started Ellie back to work - just with some ground games here and there to get her mind engaged. All was well.

I then decided to let Danica use Ellie in a lesson on Sunday, for Ellie's first lesson with Partridge Horse Hill. Danica is an advanced student and will be a summer instructor for camp this year. It was good experience for Danica to get working with different horses, and starting them up into a routine again. We started with ground games and Ellie did really well. We did some circles and other exercises to both establish Danica as a leader and give Ellie a chance to get some extra energy out. We did some free lunging too but she didn't seem to have an urge to run.

When it came to riding, Ellie wasn't herself. She was pretty calm at walk, but spooky at the far end of the arena, and at trot she would have random bursts of energy with head tossing - it was hard to tell if it was nerves, playfulness, or just being frisky since she hasn't done much in a while.

We wanted this to be a positive experience for Ellie so we did a lot of walking exercises including halting over poles, sideways over poles, and patterns. Then for trot I ran beside Ellie leading her while Danica rode so that I could keep Ellie calm and behaving.

Ellie finished on a much calmer note, and she accomplished many good things - but she wasn't the same easy Ellie I sold. We ended up letting Ellie hang out in the ring while the next lesson took place with her friend Thetis. Ellie got to relax in the ring with no pressure to perform, and Thetis got to have the company of a friend - it was a win win.

I then decided to take Ellie out for a training session Monday night to further explore what was going on. We did a variety of ground work which Ellie was fantastic for, the canter transitions so smooth and lovely - no friskiness at all.

So I progressed to riding - the mounting took a while. Ellie was stressed about it, so it took a while before we were calm and standing so I could politely mount. Soon after getting on Ellie was acting 'funny'. She was very spooky/anxious and just scrambling a bit with her feet.

I refer to scrambling because its something more than a startle, but less than a bolt - she'd zip forward a bit, but more in a choppy sporadic walk, trot or canter stride, but no gallop. Her legs seemed to be moving all over the place, and not rhythmically or in regular pattern… so I call it scrambling.  

At first I thought I might be hurting her, but I remembered she was just checked by Dr. Tandy, given a clean bill of health, I knew the saddle was sitting comfortably  and all I was doing was walk. I decided to continue walking and just explore Ellie's reactions a bit.

When we got to the far end of the ring she heard James tinkering around on the front lawn and spooked and scrambled away, very fearful, and tossing her head. I simply bent her to the side to disengage her, with her nose to my knee - it’s a calming position for horses and it refocuses them, without being mean or causing more fear.

It happened several times as we walked by the far end of the ring, or in other places too where she would get spooked, scramble, and then panic - so each time I calmly but firmly bent her head around to calm and stop her - and then I continued on.

The pattern became clearer - first Ellie would startle at something, second she would react with a slight startle, and then she would panic and get fearful of me - the tossing of the head and trying to scoot away from me (didn't work though since I was on her back).

So here comes my rant….

The only thing that could have caused Ellie to go from being a super calm and trustworthy horse to a horse very fearful and panicky is bad horsemanship. I suspect that when Ellie would spook or be unsure that she was cropped or beaten and punished. This is because Ellie was a super calm and easy horse (which I have a ton of videos and past students to prove it), and now what has been created is a horse that panics when she is scared because she is scared of both the rider and whatever else is out there.

Ellie's anxiety makes sense now - she is worried that we are going to whip and beat her too… but that will never happen at Partridge Horse Hill. A scared horse doesn't need to be beaten - they need to feel safe and trusting of their rider and handler.

As we went around the ring I would continue to disengage Ellie when she panicked simply by bending her head to the side. I never kicked her, yelled at her, or cropped her (heck I don't even carry a crop). She started to relax, lick, and chew. She became much more relaxed and we did some loose rein riding. When she would get startled and slowed down, I would praise her for her good decision, not get mad and tell her to keep going.

First we need trust and respect from our horse. Once you have that you can tell the horse to keep going if they're scared because after you have trust and respect you are just being a calm leader taking charge and keeping your partner safe…. but without trust and respect you are just an ignorant person putting the horse in danger (at least that’s how the horse sees it).

It is so very awful that this amazing horse, that only a couple years was able to take little kids on their first trail rides because of how calm and trusting she was, is now panicky and distrustful of people - what did you do to her???!!! and why???!!!! (Check out this video of Ellie on the trails or This video of Ellie when I was selling her 3 years ago)

....okay done my rant, back to the blog post...  

As our ride continued, Ellie started to realize that it was okay to stop when scared (which is something she used to know). She started to realize that she wasn't going to get into trouble for being scared, and that is okay to slow down if she was scared (because it is much safer and better then taking off or scrambling).

I did some refocusing exercises like circling around different objects like barrels or jumps set up in the ring. This helped to get Ellie's focus in the ring and we were able to have a nice walk, trot, and canter to end with on a positive note.

I am really confident that Ellie will go back to being the same horse that I once sold - she just needs to believe that we are here to be her leader, her partner, and that we definitely are not here to beat her, abuse her, or get her into danger.

Our horses don't ask for much… they just want 3 things:
1) Keep them safe,
2) Treat them fairly, and
3) Take time to understand them.

I'm listening - are you?




The Fun of Spring - Getting My Horses Into Shape



Angel - She was acting really pokey on Sunday during her lesson. She was pretty good for ground work, but crowding a little, and not wanting to budge a whole lot for games like sideways. Then for riding she was very pokey and not motivated to move.

I had Dr. Silverman up to do a chiro assessment on her and her muscles/back were given a clean bill of health and we ruled out anything physical.

So I decided to take Angel out for a session last night. I got really firm about my personal space, and moving out of my space. I played a lot of games at a distance with air pressure so that Angel couldn't crowd me. Then her whole attitude started to change. She really started chewing and licking, thinking, and relaxing but moving.

She maintained circles at trot and canter, did sideways down the fence both ways, and played 'hide the hiney'. After some really good ground work that really established myself as a fair but firm leader, we did some riding. The difference was really great - Angel rode walk/trot/canter, still a little pokey, but she maintained full laps around the ring, and was rewarded with praise and rest breaks.

I'll probably do a few more sessions with her to make sure she keeps up the good work, but all in all Angel did a complete turn around from being slow and unresponsive, to moving and responsive.

HoneyBoo - Has only had a few riding sessions done in early winter. Yesterday I put the saddle on, and did some ground work. She was a bit flighty and nervous because of all the shadows in the arena with the evening light, and she isn't used to being in the arena.

We circles around the arena, over small jumps, and she maintained gait really well. She pulled on me sometimes so I had to keep pulling her in and then putting slack back into the rope to help teach her to keep slack in the rope. She ended up doing some gorgeous trot circles really focused on me and not pulling on me so we moved on.

She was great with sideways down the fence - better going towards the paddocks with the horses then towards the front of our property. So to set her up for success I practiced going towards the paddocks to help get the understanding, then I tried going away from the paddocks and it went well.

We did some turns and hind the hiney, and a lot of back up. I had to be pretty firm with the wiggle to back up quite a few times because in the beginning she really wanted to just jump forward and play. After I set up some firm boundaries and expectations - without being mean or punishing - she was respecting my space, really relaxing, and doing lots of licking, chewing, and thinking.

HoneyBoo is going to be a spectacular lesson horse, she just needs more miles and exposure. I practice clinking the stirrups on her back which made her jump a little, and hopping around her - yes I looked goofy. I was just helping HoneyBoo get more desensitized to different things.

I can't wait to get her going more!

Balius - my little fellow that I got when he was just 4 months old is getting all grown up and turning 3 next month! I've started doing some more training with him because I am taking him to the young horse clinic with Don Halladay in May. I want Balius to be used to some more work, and to find out where we need help.

Balius can be super smart and very impressive - he was doing some amazing circles, balanced canter, nice jumps, lovely sideways with and without a wall, and we got into some more advanced patterns like figure 8's, roll backs, and weaves.

Where Balius and I need to improve is working with direct pressure - he is prone to biting, so I have to be careful how much I push him because things can be going great and then he'll either get overwhelmed or playful and nip. For this reason I don't do any follow me exercises or trotting beside him because he can get playful and will start to jump around and I don't want him jumping on top of me - I try to set him up for success and my safety by working at a distance most of the time. I plan to work on this over the next couple weeks and then focus on these tasks when we're at the clinic.

My biggest dilemma right now for Balius, is do I geld him or not? I would love to get a couple foals out of my mustang and Fjord mares - mustangs and Fjords are relatively rare and they are such hardy and wonderful horses… and it would be nice to have them crossed with something taller and more athletic. On the downside, although I can handle the nippy behaviour, I don't want having Balius as a stallion to make my farm unsafe for students. Right now he is out in a herd with mares and geldings, he is well socialized, and he respects other horses.

He is such a big, beautiful, and well built horse…. I'll probably make up my mind after the clinic to see what happens after that.

Lumen - so adorable and sweet. He did his first training session with a saddle on Sunday. He didn't get upset about the saddle at all - no bucks or scoots!

James played some ground games with Lumen, some circles, and backing up. Just some simple exercises to get Lumen used to the saddle. Lumen was so calm about everything, he did really well.

I then did a little mounting exercises with him - practiced hopping beside him, wiggly the sittups about, and tapping the saddle area. Lumen wasn't bothered by anything so I put my foot in the stirrup and pulled myself up. He was really calm and just stood there.

I asked James to lead Lumen for a walked, and the first time he scooted a bit, but settled to a stop and I rewarded him by getting off, and then starting over. I reassured him that he wasn't in trouble and no one was going to get hurt.

Lumen relaxed and then James took me on a pony ride around the arena and even walking over the small jump.

It was a packed first saddle session and job well done for both Lumen and James :) 

Spring Training - Getting well under way!


Spring Training has begun! I'll update you here now and then with some updates of the horse's training this spring, and some little tid bits and tips of how to help the different types of horses. 

Skip - a Quarter Horse palomino gelding
Goals: to do some cutting and western events/rodeo, and to have really good ground manners.

I am really enjoying working with Skip - he is a 'thinker'. He is very smart and easily picks up new patterns and ideas. When I worked with him yesterday, my priorities for training became clearer.

Every time I work with horses I always start with a little ground work- and sometimes a lot of ground work! I started Skip with backing up, sideways, forehand and haunch turns, and some circles. The Backing up helps to establish that he needs to move out of my space, i.e. 'I am leader'. The sideways, forehand and haunch turns help teach him that its about specific communication - not just whoa and go. The turns on the ground will also help him understand them when I ask for it in the saddle. The circles help Skip to learn his responsibilities of maintaining gait, direction, and to watch where he is going. The circles also give me a chance to see if the horse is full of energy, or scared of any part of the arena or bouncing tack because we travel throughout the ring and over poles/small jumps.

Skip started to anticipate what I wanted - he assumed that after doing circles one way that we change direction and do the other way. I like a horse that wants to please, but I want him to wait for cues too - so I changed this up and would ask him to back out and wait, then come back in to me, or back out and move sideways. I wanted our ground work to be about the conversation we were having, not just a routine he knows.

Skip was really respectful and tried really hard. Next was some riding. The mounting took a bit of time - because I don't get on a horse that is walking off. Skip seemed to be in a hurry to get going - so it is important that I teach him it's good to wait for cues. When he stood still I would rub and reward him by relaxing/backing away/stepping down, then I would re approach and attempt to mount. I repeated until he stayed still for the entire mounting process. Once I was on, Skip still seemed to be thinking that it was all about go, go, go - not in a dangerous or super fast way, but he kept moving like he thought he needed to be jogging, or trotting.

I spent about 20-30 min just walking and practicing steering with my legs/body - it was very clear that Skip thinks leg cues just mean go. It is important that Skip knows to look for leg/body cues and what they mean, not just go. Especially for rodeo/cutting work which requires quick responses and turns to body cues.

I used obstacles in the ring to help Skip visualize the turn and understand the leg cues better - so for example instead of just riding a random circle, or turning across the ring, I asked him to weave a set of standards, circle around a barrel, or do a figure 8 pattern around obstacles. This helped Skip to figure out where we were going and gave me a clear focus.

Once he mastered steering from leg cues at the walk, we did some at the trot. This is going to take a lot of miles and repetition for Skip to get really good at it, but my goal for our 1st try was to get him understanding, relaxed, and moving in the right direction - and all were accomplished.

We also worked on some forehand and haunch turns - trying to help him understand specific leg aids. At first he thought it meant go, but Skip figured it out quickly and gave me some nice turns, and as soon as he did we moved on. I find horses learn best if once they have started to grasp a concept that you move on to something else, and then try again later.

Most of the riding I did on a loose contact because Skip has a bad habit of really pulling on the reins. I am helping him understand having a soft mouth by having really soft and gentle contact, but if he starts tossing his head my hands bump him - I make the right thing comfortable and the wrong thing uncomfortable.

The head tossing I'm told is something Skip has been doing for a while - and when he had his teeth done he did have some scarring in his mouth. I'll try riding him him bitless next ride to help see if it's just a learned behaviour, or if it's having something in his mouth that is the bigger issue.

All in all Skip is well under way to becoming an excellent Western horse!

Friday, April 12, 2013

New Puppies and Chickens!!!

What a busy start to April!


Our Pembroke Welsh Corgi, Whinnie, gave birth to 2 adorable pups for her first litter on Thursday March 28th at 11:30pm. Everything went really well and Whinnie was such an excellent mum. Quigley (the Pembroke Welsh Corgi dad), is actually scared of the pups and runs away when he sees them!

Quigley is spending a few weeks at grandma's house so Whinnie can enjoy some stress free time with her pups.

First came out the large and chubby girl pup, whom we nick named 'Piggy'. Only 15 minutes later 'Blackie', a little male pup came out to join his sister.

We have lots of adorable photos to share with you here:
http://www.flickr.com/photos/lfequestrian/sets/72157633233390624/

The pups are for sale for $1000. If you're interested please email us at partridgehorsehill@gmail.com - however at this point we are taking a waiting list for their next litter.

We also got our very first chickens at the farm! We picked them up Sunday April 7th - and the chickens got to ride in the truck all the way home!

We bought a flock of silkie chickens that are already producing eggs. We have 1 rooster and 4 hens - and luckily the rooster isn't related the hens. They are home and doing really well - but they haven't quite figured out their ramp in their coop yet.

On the way home we named all of our chickens - Monster (rooster), Cinnamon (buff), Pertha (black), Scarlett (black with a buff ring around her neck), and Marshmallow (white). They are very friendly and quite cuddly for chickens :)

We have purchased an incubator and will be starting to incubate eggs in the next couple weeks and then will have chicks for sale. As well we have fertilized eggs for sale. If you are interested in Silkie chickens please email us at partridgehorsehill@gmail.com

You can see pictures here:
http://www.flickr.com/photos/lfequestrian/sets/72157633233403402/

There are just too many cute and cuddly animals at the farm now!




Tuesday, March 19, 2013

Taming the Wild - Mustang Cimmaron gets her first tame trim


Cimmaron is a wild mustang from the ranges in the USA. She was brought to Ontario and continued to be a wild horse out on a several acre pasture with some other horses including another wild mustang. Although she would see people filling the water trough and tossing hay, she was never tamed for the majority of her life.

She had her hooves trimmed a few times by being tranquilized and sedated to the ground so that her severely deformed hooves from over growth could be trimmed. I started working with Cimmaron last year and was able to halter her, and groom her.

Heading into this year Cimmaron's owner and I really made an effort to get Cimmaron tamed so she could be trimmed without tranquilizers. I've been working with her for an hour once a week, most weeks.

It's been really exciting because now I can approach Cimmaron pretty easily, she will take carrots from my hand, I can halter her each session, she knows how to be led with the lead rope, how to yield her hind quarters, and she picks up each hoof for me to clean out.

Last week I did a session to prepare Cimmaron for the farrier to come up - I wore a head lamp which was a little scary for Cimmaron at first. I brought my own farrier tools and hoof stand. I was able to rest Cimmaron's hoof one at time on the stand and use the clippers and file on her hooves without any complaints or worry from Cimmaron.

Cimmaron has certainly come a long way and is now much more tame but she still has some more room to come before I would call her training complete - she still gets nervous the first couple times as I switch from left side to ridght side of her body to rub her, I still have to halter her slowly or I will overwhelm her and cause her to run away, and Cimmaron is still wary of new things.

I know she is making great progress though because we have already accomplished so much and Cimmaron gets better and better every week - now it only takes me a few minutes to halter her, she leads much better, I can rub her all over, and pick up all hooves - as well each week the tasks get easier and easier. She actually stands really patiently for me to clean her hooves - much better then most trained horses!

Tonight is really exciting because Kaileen, a natural barefoot trimmer, will be coming up to try trimming Cimmaron's hooves. I will start by getting Cimmaron's halter on and some basic desensitizing exercises to get her ready, and then Kaileen will try to take over and trim her hooves like a normal, tamed horse.

Cross your fingers for us for good luck!! 

Thursday, February 7, 2013

News from Partridge Horse Hill

Just a couple quick important new things.....

We have new dates and information posted for upcoming events - check out the latest information at:
http://www.partridgehorsehill.com/events.html

We also have to start charging HST... please learn what that means for you here:
http://www.partridgehorsehill.com/news.html

James Trains Cinder!!


Sunday morning was fun and exciting as James and Cinder had a training
session. They saddled up and headed out all bundled for the cold
weather, without knowing how their first session together would go.

I helped James understand what to do when training, and James worked
through the motions with Cinder. James started with some traveling
circles to let Cinder get a feel for the saddle, the footing, and
remember his responsibilities.

Then James tasked Cinder with putting each front foot up on the table
– something Cinder hadn’t done before. This helped to get Cinder in a
thinking frame of mind and taught Cinder both that James was a good
leader he could trust, and how to have emotional control.

After about an hour of ground work, we pulled the quarter sheets off
and started some saddle work. This was only Cinder’s 3rd time having
an in saddle session with Partridge Horse Hill – and prior to
Partridge Horse Hill his previous owner had tried to start him, but
Cinder accidentally broke her nose when he reared up with her on his
back.

To help get Cinder comfortable and ready for a rider, James practiced
putting weight in the stirrups from the ground. He simply leaned on
the stirrup and hopped up and down and did this from both sides. This
helped to get Cinder desensitized to the pressure and prepare him for
the next step.

Then James stood up into the stirrup and rested over Cinder’s back –
with his tummy over the saddle so he could easily slide off if Cinder
was nervous. Cinder was great though, and didn’t flinch. Cinder had
really relaxed posture, so we rewarded him for being so calm with a
rest break and friendly rubs, and then continued.

Next James stood up in the stirrup and then sat down in the saddle.
Cinder seemed relaxed, and we allowed him a few minutes to get
comfortable with James on his back.

Next we asked Cinder to move – asking him to yield his hindquarters,
back up, and move forward. I helped lead Cinder forward when he was
unsure - but I didn’t make Cinder feel trapped because I kept a loose
feel on the lead rope. We stopped and rewarded often with rest breaks
and rubs.

As the session continued, I clipped the lead rope and we had Cinder
follow another horse, Angel. Aaron rode Angel around and Cinder was
able to follow which helped make steering easier for Cinder. Once
Cinder understood the basic cues James started steering Cinder for
basic commands on his own, like halt transitions and simple circles
around objects.

Cinder was doing amazing, and so next we tried the trot. Cinder was
perfect and picked up a very relaxed trot. James and Cinder did
several short trots around the ring with long reward breaks after each
one with lots of rubs to let Cinder know that he was being a good boy
– it’s really important that horses know when they are being good.

Next we decided to take the horses for a short trail ride around the
property, around our track and into the back of the property, down the
hill, and around our back field. This gave Cinder some purpose to
riding and he realized he could follow a trail together with his
rider. It helped to develop a partnership and show Cinder that James
and him could travel somewhere together.

Cinder and James were amazing together – Cinder didn’t have any spooks
or startles and they were fantastic together. James even said Cinder
is pretty smooth and might even become one of his favourites!

Check out pictures of Cinder and James at:
http://www.flickr.com/photos/lfequestrian/sets/72157631995488436/